*How to inspire manners in your children*
1. When
entering the house greet your children or even hug them. This should help
develop their sense of love and self worth.
2. Be good to
your neighbours and never backbite. Never speak ill of other drivers when on
the road. Your children listen, absorb and emulate.
3. When calling
your parents, encourage your children to speak to them. When visiting your
parents take your children with you. The more they see you take care of your
parents the more they will learn to take care of you.
4. When driving
them say to school, don't always play albums or cds (even if my cds!). Rather,
tell them the stories yourself. This will have a greater impact - trust me!
5. Read to them
a short story and even a scripture a day – it doesn't take much time, but
very impactful in creating strong bonds and wonderful memories.
6. Comb your
hair, clean your teeth and wear presentable cloths even if sitting at home and
not going out for the day. They need to learn that being clean and tidy has
nothing to do with going out!
7. Try not to
blame or comment on every word or action they say or do. Learn to overlook and
let go sometimes. This certainly builds their self-confidence.
8. Ask your
children's permission before entering their rooms. Don't just knock and enter,
but then wait for a verbal permission. They will learn to do the same when
wanting to enter your room.
9. Apologize to
your children if you made a mistake. Apologizing teaches them to be humble and
polite.
10. Don't be
sarcastic or make fun of their views or feelings, even if you "didn't mean
it" and was "only joking". It really hurts.
11. Show
respect to your children's privacy. Its important for their sense of value and
self-esteem.
12. Don't
expect that they will listen or understand the first time. Don't take it
personally. But be patient and consistent.
13.Pray with
them. Show them how to pray. Lead by example.
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with other parents.*
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